My ex left me for a co worker that's a down grade, help?

Bigben232
Nothing is helping now, my ex told me recently that she doesn't want to talk to me or hang out with me for a while, and I knew the reason was because she had feelings for a co worker im sure she is Persuing him now because she wants space, she told me before I want you in my life and I still love and care for you then goes cold, I seen pictures on fb of them having fun. I understand I pushed her away a little bit, but how can someone break up and start spending more time with the other man like the break up didn't happen, maybe it's a good thing and she will realize that she had feelings for him because of what she wasn't getting from me at the time, I sm a good person and she knows that she told me im ambitious, strong caring, and I have a lot going on for my self im a positive person and I know women see that and are attracted to the person that I am, I don't think its an attraction problem because I remember when I kissed her she was horny, I just think it's an emotional thing with her, and I hope she figures out that this guy is not for her and see I e Allways been there for her, I hope the no contact will make her miss me and if she sees me improving my self and she's I've Allways been positive still and hold my self up with respect, in a way I hope she comes back to me because I let go of love to see if she comes back and is mine, I would like to get a 2nd chance but I don't know where to go from here it seems like she cut me out of her life without telling me, in my eyes idont think he will ever be half the man I am, and she jumped into the guy so fast, if you break up with someone the best thing to do is give it time and truly let the other person go if you want to start again with someone in the future. i really am hurt but I believe that the person I am is right for her and I just didn't show it to her and pushed her away. I hope it doesn't workout between them because she deserves the best and I say this unselfishly and if it's not with me they have to be a lot be
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Please I know what I want and I just need some advice about handling this not Ooo move on and negative things, she's been through a lot her brother recently died and it seems like after the break up the guy she has feelings for she is Pershing him, I don't think it will last but I have to let her do her and do me for a while because I have a feeling she is gonna contact me on her own because I was a good boyfriend we started out as great friends and we have known each other for over 16years
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We're both 22, I know the break up I pushed her away and what she was missing from me she had feelings for a co worker as a result, I just hope she figures out what she did to me was wrong and should have been truthful with me and honest, and if she really does love and care for me still, she should have game me that respect and told me, after the break up she told me I don't know if we will get back together maybe we will maybe not and told me she doesn't know what the future holds for us
My ex left me for a co worker that's a down grade, help?
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