Right now, he has easy access to you. So he can be free and have you there waiting for him. I wouldn't!
I would show him what life would be like without you. I would do the no contact rule. Don't call him, and when he calls, don't answer or keep it short or act disinterested. I think he is taking you for granted. I also think this will help him stand up and take responsibility.
Again, right now it sounds like you are his doormat. I know, I just got out of a similar situation. I have issued the no contact rule, it has been two weeks since we spoke. I have had the opportunity to make some improvements in myself, I am no longer a crying mess. He broke up with me over the phone, I cried for almost two weeks straight. We lived together three years, I never seen it coming! I found out he was seeing someone, and it is killing me inside.
I am hoping I hear from him, as he is the love of my life. But, he needs to be allowed to miss me and appreciate what he had. I think the same goes for your boyfriend!
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Same happened with my ex. He found a new girlfriend shorty afterwards. I think some people are just so full of crap and we are idiots to fall for it. If he wanted you, you would be his motivation, not something that stops him from getting better. I am just so sick of pathetic people who have to make out reasons for dumping us just so they don't seem like a horrible person. Spare me the "I need to figure out my life" bullshit and gather the fucking balls to say it that you got bored with me because you are a fucked up person who wants to stick his little ballsless cock into some immature slut with whom you can feel more worthy. People have problem admitting that someone is actually better then them. There are those who get motivated to become better, and those who run away. Your boyfriend is a runner. Leave him be.
People have to find themselves. Even if that means moving into other relationships. If you can't understand that, then you really don't love him.
Instead of analyzing him though, I think you should be analyzing your self. A healthy individual would have recognized this wasn't the right time to be with this person. There's something going on with you
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