It really depends on the girl. If you guys had a long relationship and really cared for each other and if she's the type of girl who likes to stay busy to keep her mind off things, you might want to try and keep in contact with her. I'm not saying become her stalker, but make sure she still knows you care, flowers at work, small notes, etc. Otherwise she might try to distract herself with other men. But if it was a short relationship which she wasn't very invested in and she has strong willpower, you might want to leave her be, especially if she continually tells you to stop contacting her. Maybe she'll really miss you in the end.
Your best bet, send her flowers and a letter explaining how much she means to you. Let her know she can always talk to you if she'd like. It's much harder to ignore a letter and flowers than it is to delete an email or ignore a phone call.
Good luck!
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I doubt that . I think some things require action. if you don't contact her, she will think you don't care about her but right now I'm not sure if it's possible.
funny because one of my ex bf's let another girl have my phone number too. same story almost but I told him to f off and at that point, things were over. that girl said some nasty things and I'm above both of them so I don't give a sh*t but it will take a whole lot of work than just apologizing to her to get her back. if I were her, I wouldnt' come back. I'd be under the impression you're with this other girl and having fun so...
If you love her and want her back I would try reaching out to her if it’s been over a month. Prove to her you have changed and if she doesn’t come back she obviously lost something good. I wouldn’t wish a heart break on anyone not even trump
You probably have lost her. Your second ex is a huge bitch. I mean, a really huge bitch. Maybe next time don't date girls that are massive bitches and then be really nice and let them crash at your place.
Give the ex you want to get back time. Give her a week or two and then tell her you want to meet her for coffee and tell her everything. If she doesn't believe you, there's no trust there, and you probably couldn't have a quality relationship anyway. Good luck either way.
Tell her she HAS to believe you. Other wise your trust for each other isn't truly ready for a relationship.Honestly who would ever wait months to get back with an EX, to mess up at the last
min with another EX? It's too ironic to believe, she should understand, Be for real tho, set the ego aside and let her know why you wouldn't do anything, explain how much see means too you.
good luck bro
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