One of the signs he still loves you is his need to always be in contact with you. A break up typically signals an end to most of the communication between two people. If your boyfriend still calls, texts or emails you daily, he's having trouble letting go. When a man is ready to move on, you'll rarely hear from him again. If he's still calling to see how you are or what's going on in your life, he feels connected to you.
If you've been asking yourself will my boyfriend come back to me you must consider his interest in your current social life. If he has no intention of trying to win you back he won't care at all whether you are dating anyone or not. If your ex asks you often what's going on with you and if you are seeing anyone, that's a sign that his interest is more than just him being friendly. He's trying to gauge whether or not he has any competition. If he asks, and you aren't seeing anyone, don't pretend otherwise. Some men have a hard time getting past the idea that their ex girlfriend has found a new love. Just downplay any dating you've been doing if you really do want him to come back. You want him to feel that there's nothing in his way.
A guy who's hellbent on leaving you will keep on walking. He won't turn around a day or two later and call you up to see how you're doing. He won't email or text you, or drop by to say hi, or any of those things that "friends" do. And if your ex has offered to be friends after the break up? It's his way of keeping you within arm's reach in case he wants to reverse his decision and take you back. Breaking up cleanly and totally is a sign that things might be over... but whenever your ex is still talking to you after the break up? It's a good sign that he still has feelings for you.
You'll know it when your ex is trying to keep tabs on you. The most innocent little questions such as "What did you do last weekend?" are all geared toward finding things out. Your ex boyfriend isn't done with dating you yet if he's still asking you these questions. He wants to know he can come back and pick up where things left off, but that just can't happen if you're dating another guy. The more innocent your activities, the longer he's going to feel comfortable prolonging the break up. Only when your ex feels threatened by the possibility of you moving on will he seriously start considering being with you again, and this is one of the biggest ways you can know if your ex boyfriend still wants you.
- Harvey D