Hello everyone,
Well, won't dwell much on the entire story but was a LDR. He broke it off due to distance apparently. We work together so have a number of mutual friends. I'm away for studies till next year when I graduate.
I accepted the breakup painfully though and asked him to respect the fact that we can't be friends just yet. He kept on texting to which I stood my ground. He wouldn't burge so I called to find out exactly what he wanted. He had no intentions of reconciliation whatsoever so I completely cut him off (radio silence), to ease the healing. I am doing much better I must say. Somethings he did after the BU that was hurtful.
Just last week after 6 months he called me but I did not pick up. He never called, he usually texted. I don't plan on breaking my pattern because nothing is going to change I believe. It made me realise how tough Long distance relationships can be if not well nurtured so I am trying to protect myself from caving and perhaps getting hurt again. The past months have been tough as is.
A close colleague mentioned he said he has hope we will get back together to which I did not react anyway. Why would he be calling after all this time. Any ideas will be much appreciated.
Thank You
Well, won't dwell much on the entire story but was a LDR. He broke it off due to distance apparently. We work together so have a number of mutual friends. I'm away for studies till next year when I graduate.
I accepted the breakup painfully though and asked him to respect the fact that we can't be friends just yet. He kept on texting to which I stood my ground. He wouldn't burge so I called to find out exactly what he wanted. He had no intentions of reconciliation whatsoever so I completely cut him off (radio silence), to ease the healing. I am doing much better I must say. Somethings he did after the BU that was hurtful.
Just last week after 6 months he called me but I did not pick up. He never called, he usually texted. I don't plan on breaking my pattern because nothing is going to change I believe. It made me realise how tough Long distance relationships can be if not well nurtured so I am trying to protect myself from caving and perhaps getting hurt again. The past months have been tough as is.
A close colleague mentioned he said he has hope we will get back together to which I did not react anyway. Why would he be calling after all this time. Any ideas will be much appreciated.
Thank You
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