Wow, I am so very sorry this is happening to you :(
It can be both confusing and hurtful when someone who you thought loved you does a complete 180. I recently went through a break up where the guy I was with, well it turned out he was a huge liar. He was seeing someone else and had an active dating profile.
I'm still shocked and confused about what happened.
The best thing you can do is try to lean on friends and put your best foot forward. Sometimes it's not possible to understand someone's reasoning behind their actions. Sometimes people make odd choices and they don't make much sense.
Maybe he was lying or wasn't sure what he wanted? Perhaps he wanted the same things, but when he got them he became scared and confused? Committment can make people do crazy things.
Perhaps the likes you but isn't sure if he is in love with your or if he wants to marry you. Unfortunately sometimes people can be really great together, but for some reason the other person still wants to see if there is anything else out there that they will like more. in my opinion if that's what he's doing, then he doesn't deserve you.
You deserve someone who is thrilled to have you! Someone who will not walk away and leave you devastated.
I'm so sorry that you are going through this, my heart goes out to you! I know what it's like to have someone break your heart.
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I believe as being as wise as I have always been, @HopelessRN, he didn't give you a "Script" when he said all those sweet somethings that at the time was Nothings but Suddenly, out of the blue, things took a different direction and this Guy... Grew cold duck feet.
It happens a lot in a relationship that seems so perfect, much like a fairy tale book. However, things can go sour a t any given hour, when someone may sleep on it and come up with his own Line 'Overnite' because he is Not really ready nor raring to be in a real relationship, as two birds of a feather who stick together.
Good luck and lick your war wounds now. As sad and mad as you may be, be careful next time not to wear your heart so quick on your sleeve. xx
That is strange.. I feel your pain. Been there when a guy changed out of the blue and dumped me, it is devastating. He must've freaked out like gotten cold feet, he could have issues with intimacy as well. Sounds like that because guys like that change their mind out of the blue. He ignores you in public? Nothing is wrong with you, something is wrong with HIM. You don't promise someone the world then just say what he said.
I feel your pain. She just came home about 3 weeks ago, after everything seemed perfecr, said she was unhappy and wanted to breakup. Devastating!!! I'm a mess.
After reading your post, I'm questioning if maybe she met someone. Why else would they just flip a switch? Unlike you, I asked her to stay, and didn't make any difference. She left. Maybe he found somebody, I don't know. I hate to even suggest that, but not much makes sense after a unexpected breakup. I wish you the best.
The only thing that comes to mind is that he saw that things were moving towards marriage and he had a long thought and realised that although you two were great together and he did have strong feelings for you he did not think you were "the one" for whatever reason. I'm sorry that this happened to you.
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maybe he saw something he shouldn't have? maybe you did something you shouldn't have, and he found out.
for someone to do a complete 180 like that, it'd have to be something pretty serious, OR it's not that serious but it just bothers him THAT much.
or... does he show any signs of bipolar disorder?My Taurus has done same made us exclusive bfore Christmas then saw me dec message Christmas said he see me new yr and nothin for 4 months asked if he doesn't want to c me anymore n he's not replied I'm still on his whatsapp
He found another sexual interest.
Where did you two meet?
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