met on New Years eve of 2011-12, it was amazing and quickly turned into a loving relationship within months. We had so much in common. Things had been going great until some serious problems involving my family began occuring again. Which required me to be at home and that meant spending less time with her and becoming more and more agitated and on edge, which she would take as if she was doing something wrong but it had nothing to do with her. after a while things settled down and were back to normal. last march i made the decision to go back to school full time, and this required me to live close to 70 miles away during the week. I had an in depth discussion with her regarding how i wouldn't be able to be there like i was before, and that we should keep things casual for now, (i. e hanging out on the weekends and talking during the week) but i am taking a heavy courseload which requires an awful lot of time, and she was also busy with work which she agreed maybe it would help us in the long run and allow us to focus on our futures, all while agreeing that we didn't want anyone else but eachother. this past sept things were getting so much better between us, zero problems, couldnt wait to hear from her. i was getting ready to head back to school and she told me about this vaca her best friend and her were going on in a few weeks, i was super excited for her. days go by and the texts from her dwindle until i was getting nothing or close to nothing. the week she was supposed to leave for vacation she had been giving 1 word answers for texts. i was so confused, after 2 weeks of this i came out and asked her if she is seeing someone, which she came out and said yes, and she said she wasn't sure where it was headed but its a good idea we dont speak for awhile. i was heartbroken, and still am. will she reach out soon? i texted her on nye wishing her HNY but no response. nye always meant so much to us. my bdays in 2 days, will she reach out to me? does she still think of
Girls, Does she still think about me? Or care at all about me? We dated for 4 years. until she stopped speaking to me, without any notice/conversing?
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Long distance relationships tend to fizzle out, especially if your used to someone being around physically. She moved on because she wasn't getting what she needed, or wanted. You keep doing "you", and the right woman will wait a life time. She couldn't even jump a puddle for you. There will be someone who will cross an ocean for you buddy. Believe and have faith and trust that everything will work out. :-)0
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