We have been together for 2 and a half years. I'm 28 and my partner is 25. I have spoken with the person he cheated on me with and she confirmed they hadn't slept together but had met up on numerous occasions. My partner has cut contact completely with the person and has written me letters explaining why it happened and how they feel about me. My partner has said that he wants me for life and wants a family someday... I want to believe this but feel I may not be able to get past what he's done.
- Yes give them a second chanceVote A
- No tell them to never contact you againVote B
- Start off slow again and l learn to trust themVote C
Most Helpful Girl
This is a hard one. So your partner emotionally cheated on you? Can you trust that he won't ever do it again?
I really say, take your time with this one but don't put all of your eggs in one basket.
Keep your options open.
If you want to proceed forward with your ex. you have to be willing to let the past be the past.
That's difficult if you're not over it.
Proceeding forward means letting things go and giving them the benefit of the doubt.
If you're not at that stage yet, then you have to let them build it slowly to where you can get to the point of feeling comfort and ease with them again.
You have to decide if their worth it or not.0