I'll try my best to translate this from danish!
So, a bit info before we start. There's a guy I've been writing with a lot. He asked me out several times, and I said perhaps in the future. I did put you know the heart and kissy face emoji, but I do that to all of my friends, so there isn't any deep feelings behind it. I don't feel like I'm ready to have any relationships, as I'll soon move to another school district and I don't think we'll be able to talk much after that. Plus I'm dealing with some issues and mental disorders, so I'm just not able to have a serious relationship rigth now, and I would never forgive myself if he just kept on having hopes.
Please forgive me. I'm not really looking for any relationships rigth now, as I'm dealing with some issues that I'm not ready to share, since they're related to some disorderes.
You're like a brother I never had, and I just want to tell you that I don't think that we will be together, as I know that you want to. I hope we still can be friends, but I know that we'll probably need to have a break right now, which I think is best for us.
I know I might seem like a bitch. It's okay for you to hate me. It's also okay if you don't want to be my friend.
You're a great guy and I know that the person for you is out there somewhere - but I just don't want to lead you on to something that won't happen anytime.
I'm very sorry. I hope we still can be friends.
Is this okay? I would tell him in person, but I'm currently IP and I just can't handle visitors right now.
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"as I'm dealing with some issues that I'm not ready to share, since they're related to some disorderes"
it contradicts your next statement that you see him as a brother. it basically seems like the first lines were b. s. just to avoid the truth is which you don't see him that way. if you truly see him as a brother/friend simply say that. if you do like him as more than just a friend then omit the part about seeing him as a brother
"I know I might seem like a bitch. It's okay for you to hate me"
---it's not at all "bitchy" to tell him how you feel. you did it kindly and up front so i don't think it's even necessary to say the "bitchy" part0
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