Help? Why would a guy pay for everything for you when you two hang out if you guys aren't a couple?
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Some guys are just like that.
I have a girlfriend whose father is totally, genuinely, like that.
Imagine a guy buying a round for everyone at the bar, just out of pure exuberance and joie-de-vivre. Not to show off wealth, not to get pussy (he's quite happily monogamously married), but... just to spread the damn happiness.
Now take that round at the bar, and multiply it by 9,287,223,457,689, and you have my girlfriend's daddy.
I mean, one of his workers (he owns a piping company) was late one day because his car broke down. Dude was a good worker, I guess. It was around Christmastime, and the company had made good profits that year, so... yep. he straight-up bought the dude a new car. Just bought him a fucking car.
So, yes, these people exist.
On the other hand, this might also be someone ineptly trying to buy yr affection and hot luvin'.
Use yr judgment and basic people-reading ability. It's usually pretty easy to tell whether people's spending is coming from a place of genuine generosity, vs. from a place of perceived self-interest.1
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Perhaps he's just a gentleman. Or maybe he wants to be with you. Either way, the only way you're going to find out is by asking him yourself. :]0
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