So the girl I've been dating has just said we can only be friends, I'm in love with her and have been for years, so I rejected her offer and said we should go our separate ways as I can't pretend I'm happy with just friendship. Have I made the right choice? She's already deleted me from Facebook so I know she's serious about it, but I just dont know, should have I accepted her offer? I'm missing her like crazy at the moment. Thanks for any opinions.
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You stood your ground and let her know what you wanted out of the relationship.
She may not feel the same way but you shouldn't hide your feelings. That just hurts you in the end. You must be honest with yourself and how you feel and not be ashamed of that. Be resolute in your actions.
I understand what you're going through. Your attachment level is high and that will take some time to get over. I don't know how long but somehow it happens.
During this time you need to focus on yourself and move on. Sounds easy? I know, but your well being now is most important. Believe that are opportunities exist, make them happen.