I was with a guy for about 8 months and we were never exclusive or in an official relationship (his option) but I had really strong feelings for him.
I haven't seen or spoken to him for 5 months now and I should be over him but I'm not... I can't move on and I want to. I want to get back out there but I can't help but always think about him.
I hate him for how he treated me and how he lied, pretended and played with my feelings and I want to forget him but its impossible!!
What do I do?
Most Helpful Girl
In this situation, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone new.
You can't get over him because you're obsessed with the fantasy of what could have been. You need to start living in the real world, preferably with someone new.0