My boyfriend and I dated for 3 years. used to talk about marriage and he said I was perfect. then he cheated and dumped me. says he has no feelings at all and doesn't want to see me again. what can I do? I love him so much and I want him back:(
- cheaters don't deserve second chances. move on and find someone better.Vote A
- Go NC and see if he changes his mind.Vote B
- Let fate decide.Vote C
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I'm all about second chances BUT cheaters are a strange breed... it depends on how easy it is for them to hook with other people (and a number of other factors).
This girl I knew who cheated on her last boyfriend multiple times seemed to have changed and I decided to give it a shot... well it turned out that she was already seeing a guy and I bumped into her with him (the emotions I felt were overwhelming) she also cheated on that "new guy" with other people as well.
Long story short it depends on the person and in my situation the person never changed just got better at pretending to be a decent person.
So considering your circumstances of him cheating and leaving you the only logical thing to do/say is fuck him and work on improving yourself and you will meet someone 100 times better.2