Okay so me and my ex boyfriend broke up a little less than three months ago. He has a new girlfriend now and we no longer are in contact or talk at all. I miss him so much. I just want to talk to him and at least be friends. Although I don't know if I should, seeing as he already has moved on and probably doesn't care about me anymore and may have even deleted my number already. Should I at least try and contact him and see how it goes? Or just accept the fact that it's over and he's out of my life for good?
Most Helpful Guy
He's your EX... he moved on. You should too.0
Most Helpful Girl
Right now i don't think you could be friends. You still have feelings for him. How long has he been with this new girl? If it's fairly recent he'll be in the honeymoon stage with her. If you really want him back, keep in touch but be friendly. You don't want to destroy his relationship with her, or cheat. Make yourself interesting, be truly happy without him, learn new things e. g. a language or take up salsa. I think you have nothing left to loose by contacting him, but the message you send has to be the most interesting you've ever sent. It has to be interesting to him. And end the conversation first. It'll leave him wanting more.
If you're not getting anywhere and he only gets more serious then i think you have no choice but to move on.0