My boyfriend told me I was too skinny twice before and also suggested I start eating. I do eat a lot and have tried to gain weight before but it doesn't happen. And I know he loves curvy girls since he's always liking pics as such on social media sites. He's a really nice person and when I told him he hurt me. he got all worried and told me he didn't mean it at all. I can't trust him though *he broke my trust once* and since then I've been falling into depression since my skinniness is an issue for a long time back which I constantly tell myself I shouldn't be bothered. should I end it with him? Talking to him reminds me of my insecurity and it's eating me up from inside. I thought it would be okay but it's been a little more than a year now and it's not working out. All me and my boyfriend now do is fight and get back because he loves me too much to let go. He still doesn't want to end it but I can't do this anymore.
Most Helpful Guy
I wouldn't break up with a guy over something like that. I mean if you are going to end it with him or threaten to end it with him over something he said then he's going to feel like he's walking on egg shells the whole time and it probably won't last that way. If he tried to comfort you and say he didn't mean it then that right there is an indication he actually cares about you. If he was indifferent and bitter about it that would be totally different. Even at that I'm not sure that would be grounds for breaking up. If I was to break up with a girl she would have to do something majorly ****** up like cheat on me or pretty much show me that she doesn't love or care about me.0
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Most Helpful Girl
First thing you should go see the doctor/nutritionist/dietitian and the second thing you should do is that see if you are not happy with him and if you don't love him, then break up otherwise if you still do love him then try working it out, but concentrate more on your body and don't try to eat junk so that you think you will put on weight, infact eat healthier and go to the gym and do weights and all so that your body builds muscles or whatever so that you don't look skinny, but don't be muscular just tone your body and be healthy, I don't know much about it go to the doctor you will know everything. The third thing is no one has the right to make you feel bad or insecure about yourself, not even your parents, friends, boyfriend or not even yourself. If you are happy the way you are you don't need to care about what others think or say and remember the process is going to take time, but it will happen eventually and it will be worth it. Do what makes you happy and if you can't do this anymore break up with him. Its your choice and its your life, at the end we are all alone, so it doesn't matter what the society thinks or care.0