We broke up 5 months ago on sort of mutual terms but I was more hurt about it and I really wanted to try and make things work. He didn't.
So we broke up and have not spoken since the breakup.
All of my friends tell me he acts like a manwhore now. I didn't believe them until I witnessed it on valentines day he was touching all over other girls and acting like a concieted perv. He did not used to act like that when we were together he was sweet, and shy and a bit awkward. Now he just is acting like he is all that.
I texted him asking if we can just leave the past behind and at least try and be friends and if not friends if he can at least not hold and grudges cause we didn't have an extremely bad breakup I didn't see why he was always ignoring my text messages and pretending I don't exist.
He did not reply. I honestly don't get why he's acting so different and mad he's the one that wanted to break up, if he wanted to be friends or maybe have a chance of getting back together he had it but he's not taking it. He just chooses to stay bitter torwards me.. when I didn't do anything bad I was just extremely hurt by our breakup.
Most Helpful Guy
Do not try to be friends. Just let him go. Do not worry about what he is doing. Your relationship is over with him, forget him. What he does is none of your business. You do not need to be friends with him. You have enough other friends. Focus on your true friends and try to find another guy.0
Most Helpful Girl
This is nothing to do with you. Those are his issues that he isn't dealing with that are causing him to do a complete 180 in personality.
I think that you've given him plenty of chances to try and be friends with you. You need to start accepting that he won't change for you.
Are you completely over him?0