We dated for two years it was a very serious and intense relationship. Where he gave me a ring and said I was the one he wanted to marry. 3 months later he's in a new relationship. The month before they got together he said he missed me and always would. I sent him a text last night after two months of no contact between us of a happy memory that we shared. (Nothing nosy or negative else was said) but he didn't respond and he still hasn't. Ever since we split up I've wanted him back despite everything he's said and done.
- do I text him again in a week?Vote A
- Leave him alone. He's in a rebound relationship and he'll contact you againVote B
- Drown myself in a case of wine until the heartbreak goes awayVote C
- He's over me. Let it goVote D
How do I move on from here? How do I get him out of my head? How do I stay distracted? And last but not least. How do I simply stop loving the bastard?
Most Helpful Guy
sorry for what happened. if you really loved yourself, no bastards will love, cuz they will know that you're like a superwoman (strong inside and outside)... don't worry, I meant self-esteem.
you need to start thinking about what went wrong and how to fix it, not keep thinking about him, the things he said, the things you guys did together and the special moments you shared (bad idea). It will only push you into depression. think about the present, instead. or better still, focus on the future!
I know you still care about him, but let him go... It just allows you to be self-reflexive and emotionally less dependent on others.
you need to discover a lot about yourself... I mean your weaknesses, your strengths, who you are and what do you want.
Most Helpful Girl
Get over it. It's over, and you need to move on. You're tormenting yourself with delusions of gettimg back together. It ended for reason, it always does, and on again/off again relationships rarely work out well for anyone.
When my boyfriend and I first got together, his ex from a long term (5+ years) relationship hadn't let go. She sent him texts and posted old photos on his facebook, trying to get to both of us. All it did was make everyone think she was crazy. Don't be that girl. Move on.1
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