Someone is having a hard time with something and y'all are quick to point the finger. I don't get it. I feel like if someone comes for advice and they're in a rough place, why put them down any further than they already are? Yes I know a lot of it is us whiny girls crying over an ex but we don't come here to be judge. We come here to vent and release hoping that we aren't "crazy" (which I have read some pretty crazy stalking stories and in that case I'm sorry but you are crazy) some people are trying to get help and trying to figure out what to do next. Not everyone reacts the same way in situations.
But it why you gotta be so ruuuuuuuude 🎤
- Cause you're just an asshole or a bitchVote A
- Trying to be honest but comes off the wrong wayVote B
- I'm not meanVote C
- I need a drinkVote D
Ps- I'm a very sarcastic bitch. Just my personality 🙃
Most Helpful Guy
Because we're not people's therapists. They come here asking for our opinions, and our help, and sometimes the best kind of help is the one that slaps you in the face, drops you on the ground, and makes you stand up brand new.
Some people have different methods of dealing with stuff. I personally like to be rough on myself when I screw up, cause sugarcoating things isn't gonna help me, it's just gonna lie to me. So I use the same methods with everyone on here.
I don't know who's the person behind the screen, I don't know how they'll react, so I stick to what I do with myself, if it works with them, perfect, if not, then sorry I couldn't help.
I've been told by some people here that I'm rude (usually they tend to be the most sensitive ones), and I may agree that I can appear rude, but many times, when the other person is really seeking help and not an ego boost, I'm not rude, I'm harsh, but not rude.
Some people here come just for an ego boost, they want us to tell them they did nothing wrong and that their partner was the problem, but no, I'm not gonna be the one telling them they're a saint, I'm gonna be the one telling them to stop being a bitch and to open their eyes.3
Most Helpful Girl
Why you coming up in here with this! Imma point a finger right now have the right to say... That I'm just joking!!! I had too much sugar this morning so gotta mess with someone :) annnnnyway well I believe that people tell us that feeling down and those emotional wrecks are not good feelings and people really don't like to deal with those emotions so they cover it up or just say get over it, and move on. But hey they are feelings and sometimes people feel them it's apart of life.
I agree that sometimes you do need a slap in the face and you may learn next time from it but sometimes someone just needs comfort and compassion. Is that to much to ask?
And yes I plead guilty to being crazy...
Have a spiffy day folks 😁0