Im sure everyone feels lonely at some point of their lives. I dated a girl for 5 years and we broke up about a year and a half ago and then i dated another girl for 2 months and that was 8 months ago. Since then i haven't had any hook ups or relationships. And i have my friends but they are all in vacations so im starting to think too much about my exs, not missing them! Just remembering the good times and the good memories we had.
Is it just me or does it happen to you as well?
- yes it happens to me sometimesVote A
- no it never happens to meVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, i think this happens to most people. Sometimes i will be walking down the street , and all of a sudden someone i used to care about so much , will pop into my mind. There's nothing around me which reminds me of him to trigger that thought. It just seems happen of the blue.
I guess in most cases it isn't the person you miss. It's the feeling you had when you were with them , and the memories you shared together.
You can't erase the good times that you shared with someone. So it's inevitable it will happen from time to time1
Most Helpful Guy
It happens but it doesn't necessarily mean you should get back together. You are reminiscent because you are in a vulnerable state. If they treated you wrong then there is nothing to miss. If it was a situation of meeting each other at the wrong time and they were good to you then maybe but most likely it is your vulnerability. Visit friends or family. Get out and get your mind off of things whether it be alone or not1