Now, it was my birthday on Thursday, so my ex texted saying 'Happy Birthday. I hope you have a nice day :)' at like 6 o'clock at night. I just replied saying 'yeah thanks, drunk :)'.
anyway, it was his birthday the day after mine, and I really didn't feel like wishing him a happy birthday :/ But I felt I had to, so I just texted saying 'happy birthday' and this was our replies. He's replying in grey and I'm blue.
So yeah, he got completely mad, which I wasn't expecting. Seems like he absolutely hates me now and I'm not sure what to do.
Was as this my fault or is he overreacting? I kinda thought he was over me and wouldn't care :/
- He's overreactingVote A
- You provoked this reactionVote B
- He's took it personallyVote C
- He has something to hide from you as you've made him feel guiltyVote D
- Something else...Vote E
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah you provoked him. This is entirely your fault. To be brutally honest it sounds like he is better off as your ex. I don't think you can fix that, if you resent/hate him enough to tell him off on his birthday for no other reason then to tell him off (after he was respectful and polite/nice) then why would you even want to? Why would he bother listening?0
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Most Helpful Girl
Sorry to say this, but you musnt have said that at all! :/ he seemed to wish u a really happy birthday and he added " i hope you have a great day :) " ... You shouldn't have told him that you don't feel like it :/ ... HOW TO FIX THIS... Just apologize, tell him you had a bad day and say sorry about it, he doesn't HATE you for that but maybe it kinda hurt him and that's why he got SO MAD... Go apologize to him sweetie that's the right thing to do3