Ok so me and my ex girlfriend met she got my name tattood on her back she moved in with me and my family and relied on my family her dad passed away she got left £70,000 we had to move and spent around £50,000 on us and the house. We had holidays and stuff then I lost my job relied on her a little she went self employed and relied on lifts from my family to help her she got an apprenticeship and has now moved back to her mums left me and seeing all her old friends. She says she don't love me but whenever we have had these things go off we always sorted it 2 hours later were fine. But now she won't take me back and is being selfish and treating me like dirt when her dad died I was the one there for her not her friends. I was also the one to work very hard to help stop spending her money and I never cheated neither did she. Now she's messaging dudes over Facebook and spending time with her chav friends. When she came to get her stuff I helped her n I tried to bring back the love I said give me a final hug n I said thank you for all that she's done for me she never hugged me back or said anything. I begged over texts she just said I don't love you let me get on with me life but then I said well we always sorted us out she just put k. Then I rang her a day later she started being cocky and said why you keep belling me up I don't give a shit and hung up. So now she's acting like a chav. She won't say final good bye and I've not contacted her for 3 days will she miss me and try to get me back?
Girls, Ex girlfriend of 4 years split up with me will she want me back and will no contact work?
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Keep in no contact for a month. She might have been put off by the begging to get her back. Work on making yourself happy and do the things you want to. Maybe after a month of not having you around she'll realise what she had with you. We can't miss a person until they're no longer there for us.1
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You vere great and stayed by her side when her dad passed away. It was the right thing to do but she doesn't owe you for any of that. I dont think you will ever get back together but things happen.. if you want a final goodbye, give her some breathing space first and try to meet up later.0
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