I've been friends with this guy for about 12 years now. We used to hang out and watch films and eat pizza. We were also friends with benefits off and on for a few years, although we haven't done that for about 10 years now. I'm with a guy now and we're very serious. He's the first person I've ever told about my friends with benefits and he doesn't like it. It makes him really uncomfortable and he's convinced there's more to it. Me and my friends with benefits don't hang out now unless it's him and his fiancée and me and my guy together so te biggest part of our friendship has gone. I decided to end our friendship as we've both moved on and what's left isn't worth hurting my guy for. What's the best way to end it? I don't know what to say in a message, and ignoring his messages will take a long time and mean he's still on my Facebook which upsets my guy. How can I end it without having to write the awkward message?
- Keep ignoring him until he gets the messageVote A
- Send him a Dear JohnVote B
- Just block his number and Facebook and avoid himVote C
- Other -please comment suggestionsVote D
Most Helpful Guy
Actually. I disagree with AustinMan there. I think any hot blooded male would disagree with their partner still talking to a friend that they were friends with benefits. I would.
To me, if you turn it on it's head. How would you feel if he was talking to someone he regularly had sex with? Even 10 years ago. Does it make you feel jealous?
I think you're doing the right thing - but you also owe it to your friend to tell him why you're giving up the friendship - else he'll always wonder why.
Hope that helps. Life is so damn difficult at times lol0
Most Helpful Girl
Do all three0