my ex and i have been broken up almost two years (we were together for 4 years ·17-22·) & recently, within the past week, have found myself thinking about him a lot. he has a new girlfriend & they have been together for a year. i still talk to his friends & i told one of them about how I've been thinking about him & he said "you could probably get him back tbh". but i dont know if its worth trying again. what does everyone think? what should i do? should i just let it go & fight the feeling and urge to talk to him?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes Everything is possible, but most likely is not gonna work. Everything changes over time: people, feelings, thoughts etc.. it's easier to think about the positive and good moments you lived with him and wish to have that again, but nothing will ever be same..0
Most Helpful Girl
Is it possible? Yes. I personally don't ever give up if I want something really bad. I don't believe in giving up. My point is that if you really want it then go ahead and fight for it BUT he has a new girlfriend. I really don't think it's okay to get involved with that, if he was single yes but imagine how you would feel if you had a boyfriend and his first love came back.. My advice to you is that either you wait until he is single, if you think he is worth it or move on. I do not think there is any other options.0