My ex and I have been seperated for over a year. We have children together and lived together for over 8 years. She says she doesn't want to get back with me. However she calls me everyday. Our communication is great. We even do things together as a family. When I have the kids and she comes to pick them up she always comes in and stays for a bit. I do the same when I drop them off. She has even asked me to stay for dinner. But when I bring up reconciliation she just shuts down. What should I do? And why does she call me everyday? Is that normal?
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It's not abnormal. It's great that you're on good terms.
You guys share a bond that you don't share with anyone else, and it's unbreakable.
My daughter's dad and I were never in a proper relationship, we were friends with benefits, and now we're close friends.
He knows he can come round here whenever he wants, and he does.
A couple of nights a week he'll come round here to do her bedtime routine with her because he doesn't want to miss out on things like that. He often stays for a good couple of hours afterwards and we just talk and hang out.
When he takes her out, more often than not, he wants to have that time with her on his own, but there have been a couple of occasions when we've taken her somewhere together. It's good for us and it's good for her.
We do text each other quite a lot and it's just completely relaxed, and it's just really nice.
I think having a situation like that is very lucky.0
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