Hello, Let me start off by telling a little bit about who i am.. I'm currently 21, and untill yesterday i was in my very first relationship. We both met at college and we never dated anyone before, we we're both kissless and virgins in all the senses of the word, at the time i was going trough a rough patch, i've had depression for most of my life and i was finally reaching a breaktrough, we both started dating and realized we had much in common, including the fact that she had severe depression as a teen, but suposedly was healed already.. All i've ever wanted out of a relationship was affection, care, peace.. That was something that was an even greater deal than sex to me, and she cared for me, for a time. I also cared for her.. I gave myself wholeheartedly to her, to me she was my everything, till the very end.. I thought that i was her everything as well, she took care of me as i've always wished for. Untill she got trough a rough patch. You see, i've never got angry with her, for the 1 year that we were together i've never yelled at her, or picked a fight, i always tried to not mind the small things, because i love her.. My love for her was greater than all of that, but she didn't feel that way.. She started picking fights over small things like what type of medicine i was using (she's into the whole vegan thing, anti-big pharma and whatnot), wether or not i wore my pants tucked in, second guessing my career choices. It was basicly fighting all the time, it was the one thing i've never wanted out of a relationship, i wanted care, affection, love.. That's what it's all about right? Now mind you, these were not the common fights couple have.. There were all the time, like we could not spend 3 days together without her throwing a fit at me for the most stupid things.. I tried and tried to take care of her, to help her trough her rough patch, i mean i know she wasn't perfect, but i tried.. She broke my heart.. But i still love her, i'm so confused..
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No... you did the right thing. She was slowly disassembling the peace and well-being that you worked very hard to build. You have to protect that at all costs. Some people cannot learn a lesson simply by being told to stop. Or by being asked to compromise. She had to learn and grow the hard way. If she is truly sorry, she will work to change her ways in order to be a more suitable partner. Perhaps at some point you two will even be together again. But for now you have a right to be happy.1
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