They have talked in depth about how much of a git that I am. It's fantastic since she doesn't even know me.
My ex has beaten me, pinned me down, shoved me, berated me and the list goes on and on.
He has never supported me... EVER
and he spent the last 7 years (yes, 7 years) withholding sex.
i ended up having an affair because I was so bloody miserable and actually wanted to run off with somebody and because I was sick to death of finding him "texting" other women.
this is the 3rd time he has said he "longed for someone"
i don't know why I didn't leave the 1st time he emotionally cheated (maybe more) as it was so difficult reading about me being a mental case, how our kids were crap to him and how he wished he had never had them.
He said he was "living the dream" and that he "wished they could have been a we"
why did he abandon us 5 weeks after my dad died and why has he said absolutely sod all to me in 10 months since he left us? Any ideas?
Most Helpful Guy
Never supported you... EVER. That was the indicator from the start that you should not get married. Why would you marry someone who did not support you?
Beaten you, pinned you down, berated you... All things that should have had you thinking of leaving. Combined... definitely you should have left him long ago.
Withheld sex for 7 years... You should already be divorced for 7 years and have forgotten him by now.
He is calling you a mental case and your kids crap... You should have left him long ago.
Why are you with him still; why are you looking for answers about why he abandoned you; and why do you care that he has not been talking to you?
You should have gotten a lawyer and divorced, with support and child payments, long ago. So do it now.3
Most Helpful Girl
I honestly will NEVER EVER understand why people like this don't seperate/divorce after the first few times. Anyways...
Why did he abandon you? Maybe because he's an abusive piece of shit who never loved you in the first place. I mean wtf? How is that not obvious at this point?1