My ex of one year broke up with me 2 months ago. Said he fell out of love with me because I wasn't the girl he fell in love with anymore. Weight gain caused depression and I withdrew, so his claim is somewhat validated. Asked to move in together thinking it would make him happier with me and he ended it 3 weeks after getting the apartment. Days after the breakup he started talkign to another girl and they have been in a relationship for a month now. She appears to be very opposite of me and they appear to be moving at a rapid pace. They have put their "I love you's" out on facebook, tagging each other in mushy crap, etc. He always said he hated couples like that and even his family and friends verified that with me. I was not affectionate enough towards him, stopped letting him see me naked, and just wasn't very emotional enough I guess. All stems from the weight gain and from being single for a very long time. He made seeminly joking remarks about wanting me to inittiate more intimacy and affection and I didn't take it seriously. 3 weeks after the breakup he was coming around to the idea of working on things, stayed with me for 3 nights and then went cold again. Started dating this girl. I wish we had been able to work on things together, but seems he didn't want to. He said he needed to not see or talk to me for awhile and moved out and is now in this "teenage love" type relationship where they seem to be obsessed with each other. She's 19 and he's 22 and I'm sure she showers him with affection and adoration, which i didn't so I'm sure he's eating that up. She also was in love with her ex and tried to work it out with him just over a week before they started dating and now she's "so in love" with my ex and posting how she can't wait to spend the rest of her life with him. Just wondering if this is more of a rebound relationship and he hasn't really moved on or if its the real deal and he has moved on. Or maybe they are rebounding together?
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Perfect example of a rebound. Leave him be until it fizzles lol1