What are some ways you cope with being hurt, dumped, etc? I mean, I've gone through this before but for some reason, this is 100x worse because I actually fell for the guy (I've never been in love or have really "fallen" for anyone). I have my own ways to cope, it's just that this time around it hurts a lot and I find myself sulking A LOT. Pretty much every day.
A little back story. I'm into this guy. A LOT. Things were great but we were just casually dating. Well, he was also dating this other girl as well (he was honest with me about it from day one and he was just dating around). Well I've noticed they've gotten closer, almost boyfriend/girlfriend level, yet he still wants to see me. I think that's pretty messed up because if I was her, I wouldn't want him doing that. He hasn't told me that it's gotten serious, as if he's trying to keep it hidden to keep what we have going a little bit longer. It's really irritating me but I love what we have. I know the right thing to do is walk away from him but my heart wants me to stay. I just don't know what to do.
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Don't cope just move on. Coping will only get you hurt in the long run. Don't let people string you along. I've had that happen to me before and it hurts, a lot. You deserve someone that will make you a priority, and make time for you. Someone that will treat you right, and not leave you just for another woman. I honestly think that if a person truly likes you they will make time for no matter what. They won't make excuses whatsoever. Don't ever let a guy walk over you because it shows that he has more power of you than you do yourself. If he wants to date that other woman that is on him. Do not ever let a person just tag you along, just for the sake of it. If someone was treating me that way I wouldn't want to be dating them anymore, I would just move on.3