So me and my ex broke up about a month ago and he started talking to another girl the same week he ended things with me. At first it was tough but I gradually started to get over it and started talking to someone new, during this time me and my ex remained "friends" but he had a hard time accepting the boundaries I set for us being friends such as I personal space issue with him and how he couldn't touch me and stuff which is how I treat my actually friends he started saying I was acting different and stuff because he was different from any other friend I have and should be treated as such but I kept telling him circumstances have changed and we can be friends and talk to each other and stuff but things are different. He asked me if I talked to someone else and I told him yes then he just kept asking if it was someone at our school or from back home and I kept telling him it's none of his business who it is then he was like "but I thought you wanted to be with me" and I told him times are different now. He went up to a guy that I had met a day ago I literally met him a day ago and we just said hi to each other and he was asking the guy if he was I trested in me and he said yes and he told him not to be interested in me because I was his girl after which he called me like 5 times in a row and when I finally called him back he told me this and was like "I don't like people being interested in you" ultimately the conversation ended In a big argument of me telling him to respect his new girl (which he refuses to claim as his girl to me) and leave me alone then him saying I'm taking it the wrong way and he was always ok with us not being friends and so I said ok stop coming up to me stop talking to me. He's been incredible disrespectful in the way he talks to me in public when I'm not acting how he wants the next day my cousin went up to him after he gets about what happens and asked him politely to leave me alone he flipped out and tried to fight him
Is it really my fault my exs new relationship didn't work out?
What Guys Said 1
No. You're on safe side0
What Girls Said 1
No, it's absolutely not your fault.
Your ex obviously can't let you go, and it makes him angry to see u move on and do better. Being friends with ur ex is close to impossible, because there are always going to be lingering feelings. I think he got with his new girl to spite you and ot backfired because you didn't take the bait.
Im glad that you tried to handle it as civil as you could, (plus its cool that u won that fight ;) ) I really think that ur ex should move on and stop trying to sabotage ur life.
Tell him "if you ever loved me, you would let me go and let me be happy"
If he still keeps bugging you, that's harassment, and that is grounds for getting a restraining order. Hopefully it won't come to that, and he will get the idea and beat it.
I wish u good luck on your future relationships
Hope this helped :)1
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