What do you Do to get over someone? How do you get over someone that you like and how do you get over someone that you fell in love with?
Most Helpful Guy
its not easy, time... I suspedt girls are different than guys, so listen to the girls, but here's my opinion.
Think about what you got out of it. What did you learn about yourself... that's the value in relationships? How did you grow? What can you take out of this and contribute to the next person. What did you learn about what you need out a relationship.
The other thing is to stop fantasizing about how perfect he is and think about his many flaws. How they would grate you over time, how selfish he was, arrogant, etc.. that will help you see him as a human and not some perfect person.
Think about and dream about the next person and what you want your life to be like.
It still may hurt when you see him around, this is the problem with bonding...2
Most Helpful Girl
Acting like they don't exist anymore really helped me. Basically, if you have anything that reminds you of them any gifts, cards, etc get rid of them and throw them away. If you have there number or if you are friends with them on social media block them so you aren't anxious to see what they are up to. I try to just keep myself busy and focus on something else. It takes a lot of time to get over them, forgetting them is easy but having them stuck in your head is what's hard, I've been there. But I've already gotten over mine.1