Ok, her and I were together only 6 months, but I was in love with her when she broke it off and began (behind my back until I found out accidentally) seeing someone whom I thought was a friend of mine.. I will not talk to this guy ever again and have erased him from my life as he was obviously never a real friend to do such a dirth bag thing... however, even though I am deeply hurt and even angry about her doing this to me, I can't help but still love and care about her and just want to keep things on good terms with us -- not because I want her back, nor do I expect her to ever want me back, but because I simply want to remain life long friends, as I've managed to remain with my other ex's including my wife of 18 years.
I was going to get her a $25 Nordstrom e-gift card and tell her to "Have a salmon caesar salad and creme brulee on me!" since that was one regular meal when we ate there...
Yes / No? Why?
- Yes - can't hurt to send good vibes into the universe8%(1)11%(2)Vote17%(1)
- No - you'll look needy, or you'll come off as pathetic92%(12)89%(17)Vote83%(5)
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No. You will look absolutely pathetic. She will laugh at you and feel empowered by your obvious neediness.
To borrow a line from the gangster movies: she is dead to you.1