After a long time of trying to make my fuck buddy my boyfriend I realized it was not going to happen. We had a serious talk and I realized that we will never be in a relationship. We dated briefly but it did not go well. I'm hurt but I understand and respect his decision. Problem is that I made a big deal about trying to be friends. (This was 2 months ago when I thought I still had a chance with him) Now I don't really want to talk to him anymore. We're on friendly terms but every week or so he sends me a message to see how I'm doing. I don't feel like talking to him anymore because I feel like I have nothing to say. I don't initiate texts anymore and I feel a bit awful and hypocritical. It's not that I don't care about him, it's just that it hurts to talk to him. I asked if he wanted to go "no contact" but he said no because he says I'm cool. Sometimes I just want to forget he even happened but I still care about him. Any advice? what should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
You're a little heart broke deary.
You need a little no contact to heal.
Ask him to go no contact for a month but to initiate contact in a month.
You'll feel a little better by then.
After all a wound can't heal if you keep picking at it.2
Most Helpful Girl
No you're not a scumbag. I am in a similar boat to you except he became an asshole so i ended it. He still messages me also. I think it's men fantasizing about what they can't have and they know is good. Move on and find a man that wants you for you not just sex.0