I was seeing a guy for 7 months, we were not actually together but acted like we were. A month ago he ended things due to "not being ready for a relationship" (he has a lot of things going on personally), even though a week before we were absolutely fine, we never really argued and spoke practically everyday.. He doesn't want to loose me and still wants us to be friends, we haven't spoken in 3 weeks and I miss him so much :( What should I do? Continue with no contact and move on or try and fix things with him?
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe he needs more time to really understand what he wants in life. You should definitely try to talk to him and try to fix things.0
Most Helpful Girl
I mean, I'm not understanding why you stopped talking to him. You mean there was no communication from either side or what? But if you can't handle just being friends with him, then you should distance yourself. Being around him will only make you miss him more and be upset that you aren't together. Not many people can just 'be friends' at the end of a break up, I know I can't. But if you think you can handle it, then talk to him. You really have to analyze yourself and see how you feel about. There's really no 'fixing' anything because he already told you he doesn't want a relationship. I will say this, though, usually when you stop all communication, the relationship doesn't come back together. Usually, not always. But there's still that chance the communications gets your hopes up and in the end, he still wants to be friends and date someone else. So you have to determine for yourself which is the worst case scenario for you.0