He wasn't a bad guy, was really loving and great when we were together. Just never ever barely made time for me. We went 5 weeks without seeing each other because he was always 'busy' with work and friends, but we don't live very far apart. Both of our previous relationships were with physically abusive, controlling people and we were both scared to end up in that situation again. We would have a great time, then after he would get distant. He would not talk to me or respond to me for days. I would sense the distancing and push him away. He would blame it on having issues from his ex. This last time he did it I broke up with him, over message, because I knew I wouldn't see him anytime soon. He read it, but never replied and I haven't heard from him for 5 days. I felt breaking up was the best option, because the roller coaster ride was getting to be too stressful and bringing up bad memories from exes. I do miss him and love him still and other then these issues we were absolutely perfect together. I'm trying my hardest not to contact him and stay strong. Any advice?
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I'm going through the same thing right now and it's very hard, but I find that just coming to terms with the loss of the relationship and that its best to be apart so you don't have to deal with the stress it's causing you. If you know in your heart that it would never work then just stay strong and don't contact him otherwise you are going to get hurt in the end. It's best to just grieve the loss and it's okay to cry and feel sad because it's very hard to let someone go that you love. But remember it will get better, you just have to give it some time, so try not to contact him and I hope you feel better soon 😊0