I'm a little shocked because my best friend was walking with my boyfriend's best friend, and they were talking about me and my boyfriend's relationship. His best friend apparently asked ,"didn't they already 'smash?'" and my best friend said,"No they didn't, what do you mean?" and he was like,"That's what he's telling all of us." (All of his friends)
Should i talk to him about it or just brush it off? Am I overreacting and being immature or is being mad understandable? and lastly how should i talk to him about it?
anything would help thanks :)
Most Helpful Guy
My first thought on this... What else is he lying about. Someone that lies about that, essentially throwing you under the bus, is not going to be good for you. Tell him to stop lying, if he doesn't leave. Its always a bad sign if a guy starts a relationship lying.1
Most Helpful Girl
Okay I am going to be damn straight because guys that do this piss me off. That is complete bs. Why even question to talk about this with him? If it was me I would of got all crazy on him demanding respect. That is what you should do, demand respect. Because guys are guys and sometimes and in this kind of situations, they need a limit. My boyfriend has a straight limit to what to joke around with and what not to. I am very serious with this issues because it's my dignity on the spot. Why would you want a group of guys be talking about how you guys have sex?
First of all, that is private. Second, it's non of their business. Third, you ain't their girlfriend. You're your boyfriend's girl.
Even if you guys actually have sex one day, demand respect from him by not going around and telling. NO MATTER how close those friends are to him.0