A few short weeks ago I made the tough decision of breaking up with my boyfriend of over a year. Long story short we grew apart, and with me going to college in the Fall I felt that it was for the best. Recently a girl that had been chasing my boyfriend before and during the time that we were dating described to me in great detail their newly professed love...
Is it wrong for me to feel absolutely terrible right now? I know I'm the one who ended things, but that didn't make the news any less painful. Is it normal for me to feel jealous and upset that he's moving on so quickly?
Most Helpful Guy
That's normal for you to feel jealous and upset, and like your relationship is devalued because he moved on quickly. However, with that said, would you not agree it's probably best practice after ending a relationship for him to move on to a girl that might be a good match since things? And for you as well.2
Most Helpful Girl
It's totally normal. I divorced my husband and it was finalized 4 months ago. The divorce was my idea and although I do not want him back, he has moved on and I have to admit it kinda hurts and maybe I'm jealous a little cause I don't have solemn else but he does. Just being honest!3