so my girlfriend broke up with me saying that she wasn't happy and that she thinks we are just meant to be friends. She also stated that she does have feelings for me and that she needs time away from me. We can message each other and not blow each other's phone up but we can't hang out. Said that as friends, we enjoyed each other company more and since we broke up, things haven't been the same. She requested time away from me and that's what I'm giving her. But what confuses is the fact that she can't answer my question. I asked her if there was any chance that we could be together down the road and if we can start being in a relationship again. She keeps telling me to stop pressuring her and she's not ready to answer that question. Why does give me that answer if she thinks we just meant to be friends? i just want a yes or no question and she's not giving it to me. Is she playing games or something? i really love this girl but I find no reason to hope for something if she's not looking to be with me. Any inputs would be appreciated. Thank you.
Most Helpful Girl
It sounds like she could be just as confused as you are when she can't answer your question. Unless she's telling you that she just wants to stay friends with you for good, especially when things between you two have been so much better since you broke up. Normally the problem is that people sometimes rush into relationships through fear of being alone for the rest of their lives or they really aren't sure what they want from the beginning. The later on they decide, that they aren't ready for anything heavy. Or some of them develop feelings for other people. Its kind of sad really. Please don't jump to conclusions, these are only examples taken from what I've heard about other peoples relationships. If she's not going to give you a straight forward yes or no answer. Then just leave it, don't keep asking her because its getting you no where. She'll come back to you when she's ready to give you an answer. If she doesn't ever bring it up again, then you know she's got no intentions of getting back with you. For the time being, just be her friend.0
Most Helpful Guy
When a girl ask me give her space, i be like here take it: