My boyfriend stopped talking to me 3 weeks ago without any reason, I called a couple times and he didn't answer. after a week I decided that it was time to give up on him and move on.
but now he started talking to my best friend telling her that he couldn't move on, and that he wanted me back, she told him to simply talk to me and try to fix things between us.
he then told her that he will talk to me when his exams are finished, which is next week.
I want to get back with him but i don't want him to take me for granted and talk to me whenever he feels like it like he did before. what should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
No all he wants is a backup plan0
Most Helpful Girl
yeah that is not cool bc y'all were a couple, not just dating or friends. Whats really concerning is why he would disappear like that and all of a sudden come back? My first thought is another girl and it evidently did not work out so now he is back. why leave you for her? who knows. Maybe he was feeling her more and had no respect to just break it off with you. I mean what other reason unless it some family emergency and even that is no excuse to just leave your girl like that.
So if you still want him back after that, he has a lot of explaining to do and if his excuse is lame and not believable to you, then i would not get back with him.
He has no respect for you clearly and chances are high that he will do that again. Its up to you0