Is telling someone they're not what you're looking for a mean thing to say?

I just ended things with my boyfriend of 1 month-ish. I wasn't happy with him and I told him that I couldn't ignore how I felt deep down and that he's not what I'm looking for. Was that too harsh?


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  • You could have just said it's not working for you and that there are differences but your phrasing isn't that off and it could have been worse. What matters is that you were honest about it and didn't waste his time which is awesome!

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What Guys Said 2

  • ha! not at all. You actually let him down easy.

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  • not it's fine

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  • Not at all, I think it hurt him but honesty is better then telling him a lie and making him wonder what he did wrong

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