Can this be fixed? We've been together for about a year and a half, so last weekend i brought up moving in at some point. Not necessarily now but maybe in the next year... i also asked if he saw a future together and he said he did. The moving in part though apparently scared him a bit. He had a rough ending with his son's mom (not married ever), so he's hesitant. Well i suggested a break from seeing each other this weekend. Maybe to get his head in the right place. Time apart. Though we agreed to keep in contact. Well it seems likes its only been me. So i decided to get away from everything and stay with my mom in an area where there's no service. So i let him knowi was going there and he told me to let him know i got there ok. So i called and left a message. This morning i went into town to grab a coffee and expected a message from him... nothing. so i called him and he text me saying he was working and hed call me later. I told him never mind and sorry id bothered him. He said he was glad i got up here safe and apologized for not responding. I feel like he's distant, pulled back and i asked him if it was over. He was taken a back by that question saying we are on a break (which apparently means , to him no communication not seeing each other) and he loves me, but he needs time to think. Now i feel I've ruined things. Im backing off completely and going to let him come to me. Is this ruined?
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i think you are projecting your what you assumed he felt about you asking about moving in at some point into the future on to all his actions
it sounds to me like he's been contacting you relatively normally and apologized when he didn't get back to you right away. I think you may feel a bit insecure since you put the moving in thing out there and you interpreted his response as negative but his actions don't sound like someone who needs a break at all1