He kept giving me I don't know answers for a while. Should I just give up on the fact that we ever maybe together in the future? An I in denial? Or are we never getting back together? Do guys rarely want their girlfriends back after they date them for 3.5 years and then dump them just to tell them they want to be alone?
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Sometimes a guy needs more time to think about what he wants compared to a girl. Girls are always thinking in terms of a relationships. A guy does not!
So when it gets to the point of being serious about what's going to happen in the future we may need more time to think about things we generally don't. Girls ask themselves difficult questions about how they feel about a guy and where they see themselves in 3, 5, 10 years or more. They think about if they can deal with changes in someone's personality and whether or not they want to wake up next to a certain person for the rest of their lives.
I don't know if this is what your fiancée is doing, but that would be my guess. Will he get back with you? Only he can answer that, and that's if you even want him back too!
Personally, I would think over the past 3+ years, he'd have taken some time to think about this stuff, especially if he's already proposed! For now, if he says he wants to be left alone, do that. I'd give him about 2 weeks and if nothing from him, as hurtful as it is, move on. I'm sorry he's done this to you.1
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