so our anniversary is in July of five years and we have been looking at buying a house. Or should I say we had been. He then had some job issues and suddenly decided to say he didn't know how he felt anymore as he should feel more excitement about the house and couldn't say if he loved me etc. When I asked if we were together he just kept saying he didn't know, I said about going out for the day etc and he said he just wanted to stay home etc. Due to all this and him cutting me out we broke up. He won't speak to me at all. He is pushing me out.
I have been doing no contract since Monday but this is the third weekend without him. What do I do?
I think the house situation can be discussed and this is a step too far... He just kept banging on about how he is better off alone. His friends now know we have broken up too. His belief is also when you break up its over.
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Do not contact him. Do not act needy. Do not ask your common friends about him. Do not answer his calls or messages if he bothers to call you. Do not beg him to even talk.
Get a flat for yourself, and focus on your job, life and self-improvement. If he is so moving on and thinks things are so easy after 5 years, and if he even says he couldnt say he loved you all those five years, i am sorry but he wasted your time.
Break things off totally. Even if he asks his stuff back etc. dont answer him. You need to not talk to him or see him in social media etc. for at least 30 days and process your own feelings. maybe you will come to conclusion that he also did not mean anything to you. I am sorry for all those five years wasted.1
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