Help :( my boyfriend whom I give a lot of freedom to, eg he hangs out with friends, goes camping, spends the night at his mates' to play video games etc, I don't get angry or upset, I accept him for that and when we do meet we have the best time. He broke up with me because he was angry that I was holding him back from sleeping around cos he feels like that is the type of person he wants to be and I can't change that. He's already seen prostitutes twice in our relationship and I forgave him cos all men have urges (once during his holidays another one during our fight) so it was understandable. However it upsets me cos I've done everything right it's just he feels he needs to sleep around.
So can someone explain this whole thing?
doesn't make sense!
Most Helpful Guy
It's hard and easy to explain, it might be hard for you to hear, I don't know.
Your boyfriend feels like sleeping around and you got to be loyal in a relationship, so that's why he broke it off. Because he can't commit.
You might feel hurt, but yeah he's a..."slut". See him as a lesson :/1
Most Helpful Girl
I did this because you allowed him to do it. You set no boundaries and you allowed stereotype issues that men have needs get to you. You knew he slept with prostitutes, you should have put your foot down. That's number 1. Number 2, if all he wants to do is sleep around. Then sayonara to him. He knows your too easy and can easily take advantaged of you because your naive. I'm just being honest here. Technically he can do whatever he wants, it's not illegal and he isn't your husband. It makes a a while lot of sense, because that's exactly what you did, you let him get his way without fighting for it and for you to be respected. So naturally he isn't going to feel the need to respect you. Either way, it sounds like to me, he doesn't want a relationship period and it isn't just with you. Let him go. If you had a sexual relationship with him, don't jump into one again the way you did. I can't stop you from having sex, but everything has it's consequences when you chose premarital sex. Anything he gave you, wither it's clothes, pictures, movies, games, jewelry, technology, etc, throw them out! Every picture taken with you two, get rid of them, social media images and all. Get rid of it. You need to do this to move on.1