I told my guy something deeply personal that was to remain between us. I specifically asked that it not be shared with anyone. I accidentally overheard a voicemail from his Aunt who is like his Mom and she was asking him what to tell me if I called her after he broke up with me due to what I told him! The big secret was mainly about my finances which, at the time, were pretty dire and I wanted no one but him to know about it because it was embarrassing and I trusted him and confided. I never thought he would break up with me as we were madly in love and talking marriage for almost 2 years. I ended the relationship first because I was so let down and worried that he would go and tell her everything about me. Apparently he didn't want to break up afterall but now I just don't like what he did, nor do I trust him.
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This is a sad and awful betrayal. You trusted him and confided in him. It should go without saying that this was not to be repeated to anyone else. It's not as bad as cheating, but not far off.
What to do from now is your decision. It would take some time for the trust to be regained. You may not want to try. I can't say I blame you.1
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