It is so hard for me to take my relationship seriously without thinking about the ending. I'm falling in love with my new boyfriend and I'm so scared to let myself because it has been so long since I have felt this way and I never want to feel loss with him.
How do I change my mindset? I'm literally getting nightmares about how the relationship could end in the future.
Most Helpful Guy
Aw man!! Kgg I feel for you. It's very hard dealing with love mate. It's the best damn feeeling in the world but it's twin, extreme emotional pain lingers just right around the corner.
There is no set way to change your mindset really. In all honestly, to me, love is just risk, not knowing what you're getting yourself into or what will happen in the future. You give your heart over to your partner and trust that they won't bring your nightmares into reality by crushing it.
That's what love is.. it's having no control, being powerless
- forget who said it but yeah lol🤓1
Most Helpful Girl
"Keep things at arm's length... If you let anything come too near you want to hold on to it. And there is nothing a man can hold on to" - I still have same problem.
Just now I try to risk more than I did before, cause life is too short for being a coward.
Do not think about its end, but think about those beautiful moments that you will share with each other.
Live for a moment, stop worrying about future, nothing is endless and that's a beauty of life.
Try yours, If you do not fight just because you are afraid of lose, you'll be more than a loser.
I made same mistake once and every time when I look back I think "What if"...
Enjoy your life now, we have no time for fears, cause we may not be alive tomorrow.2