I am turning 18 in October and I have a 20 year old girl friend but it seems like every month she wasn't to break up over something so stupid. It may even be for no reason. She will tell me to leave her alone, don't call her ever again, etc. This has happened about every month for the past 4 months we've dated for 5 and its not like we can talk about the problem because she becomes hard headed when she's angry. Every time she's come back. She told me she never wanted to see me again in her life even though she has said that before but I told her ok that I would do what she wanted. I can be the kindest of people and she still won't let me sit down talk about it. I've always notice that she has never broken up in person and is never mean, but when we talk on the phone sometimes she can be full on rude. I of course want her back and I want this annoying pain to go away
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds unstable. Personally, I don't have the patience for people like that haha I'd have been the fuck outta there the first time she pulled that shit...0
Most Helpful Guy
i have encountered this behaviour myself in a relationship that i was in for over 5 years.
it could be a myriad of reasons why she is behaving in this manner. such as a traumatic experience. medical condition. or she is just being a b*tch.
the biggest factor is how strong is your patience and will power.
some strategies you can try are when she breaks up with you over text, message back saying it doesn't count unless its in person. she will most likely reply in anger and say many choice vindictive words.
another can be to act like it doesn't bother you. she breaks up with you over text and just reply back "ok" and don't respond back or be nonchalant when replying. Her tune will change.
Truth is that this behaviour will not change. She doesn't value you as a person. she might say she does when things are amicable but actions speak louder than words. Remember that.
It is your life and you are still young enough to find someone who will appreciate you the way you deserve.0
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