It happened to me. I was left with no explanation due to an argument and while I know he doesn't deserve me I find it hard to let go of this anger and hurt. No guy can make that go away, I feel like there is something I need to work on myself with in order to move on. I'm with someone and I feel like it's effecting what I have with him because I can suddenly he very angry and sad.
Most Helpful Guy
If you can't let go of the previous relationship why are you with someone new? You should end the current relationship and let him know you cannot commit to him fully because you still have issues from the previous one. It's not fair to the current person, he did nothing wrong.
Meanwhile, you need to get over this. The other person hurt you and moved on. First you have to realize he's not coming back. Second you have to find it in your heart to want to move on. Third, do it. IT's not easy but you can do it.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm very sorry. The most painful goodbyes are the unsaid and unexplained ones. It leaves you with many unanswered questions. You'll probably be going through a range of emotions right now, so to be honest seeing another guy right now isn't a good idea. It's unfair to him and to yourself
Most people find their own way of dealing with their pain. I usually go the the gym more and spend time with friends. Cry if I feel the need to, coz crying can be therapeutic. Every time my thoughts dwell on what was or what could have been I focus my mind on more uplifting things
Time doesn't heal your pain, it's what you do with your time that heals it. That's why it's important to keep busy and your mind on things other than him. Gradually your feelings will fade and the pain will ease. , but for now just be patient with yourself and work on strengthening yourself emotionally1