Pros and Cons of dating a dumb girl?

[Anonymous]

I really like this girl and she's the first person I've ever made a deep connection with that I don't just like because she's hot or flatteres me. But there's one problem, when it comes to logic she's dumb af. I consider myself to be pretty smart and sometimes her stupidity literally hurts my brain. For example she spelled her own name wrong twice in one day and she told me that she forgets her birthday sometimes. What are the pros and cons of dating a dumb girl?

[dissolute_dog]

Well those examples don't show that she's necessarily dumb or bad at logic, but I have seen some other people who are truly bad in those areas, and it can be exhausting.

When you're in a relationship, you have to be like a team, especially when it gets serious. You have to plan and make decisions together, etc. And if she is not very bright, you will end up having to do a lot of the work yourself and carry her, which is never a good thing. And you will have to remedy a lot of the mistakes that she makes. Basically, there is a lot more work for you, haha.

There are really no pros to being with a dumb person in the long run. Some people make the mistake of thinking that a dumb person is more likely to be nice and kind, but that's not necessarily the case. Kindness and smarts are not related.

[Anonymous]

You would have to do all of the brain work.

Maybe if she's not that bright, you can be the one to guide her and help her understand things that she has problems understanding.

Let's hope she's not so dumb and forgot to use the pill. Otherwise, always remember to use protection.

[redeyemindtricks]

She is probably just sleep-deprived.

MOST teenagers are sleep-deprived already, since high school starts at an ungodly hour that's totally unsuited to the teenage circadian rhythm.
... Throw in just a *little* extra sleep deprivation, on top of that... and, yeah, those kinds of mistakes aren't uncommon at all.

[Sammt999]

wth lmfao she'll make you feel extremely smart then ig but it's annoying too like wtf u wite ur name on every shit the teacher gives you how do you not know how to spell your name... she would be slow to catch on what you're saying and you'll have to explain or repeat

[Razzle-Dazzle]

Maybe there's underlying reasons for it which you are unaware of , and she's too embarrassed to discuss or doesn't know you well enough to confide in you. Her forgetfullness appears to be something more seriousness than just being " dumb"

[mutedaisy]

I agree. She might have a learning disability.

[Razzle-Dazzle]

@mutedaisy

Yes that's true she may have.

[Chivalrous_Guy]

It depends. She could be the most faithful and supportive person you'll ever meet.
I used to have a staffy who was the dumbest dog until she hit 6 months old. Then things just seemed to click and she was the best after that.

[bobbyxx]

Man hating feminazis are dumb. But they won't pit out.

[Autumn-Bunny]

That doesn't mean she's dumb.

[dissolute_dog]

This! Those examples just show that she's forgetful/absent-minded maybe, not that she's an illogical person. And besides, misspelling her name sometimes sounds kinda cute. xD

[Autumn-Bunny]

@dissolute_dog or maybe she's thinking about something else.

[redeyemindtricks]

Or sleep-deprived.

[Autumn-Bunny]

@redeyemindtricks yes that happens to me when I'm tired, dehydrated, and thinking about something else.

[Anonymous]

you'll feel more smart.