We broke up late June. When we have spoken, we have been civil. (We still care about each other, or at least I do). Im not sure if I should send him a message wishing him a Happy Thanksgiving (I live in Canada). I still worry about him and generally hope he's doing ok. My intentions aren't to try and make things work again (not that I would be opposed to that either). I just really want to make sure he's ok...
What are your thoughts?
Most Helpful Guy
It's gonna reopen wounds. The thing with wounds is that if you don't deal with them the right way, they scar.
So you can do it, maybe things will work out or maybe you'll get some much needed closure. Or maybe you'll make everything worse. just make sure whatever you do, it's for the right reasons.0
Most Helpful Girl
You're just used to talking to him all the time and you haven't allowed yourself time to detached from him yet. So no. Don't do it.0