Why would you break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend over a text?
OK.. So my boyfriend decided to break up with me through a text a month ago for a girl who went to his school.. And I'm still hurt over it because I really loved him.. We hung out the night b4 but he decided to break up with me in a text the next day instead.. Well.. The question is.. Why? Why would you want to break up with someone in a text? Is it just me or would you rather be broken up in person too? I mean.. At least you can see there real emotion in how they say it instead of a text that says "Its not working out" I just want to know other thoughts.. Thanks
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Most Helpful Opinion
I'd agree with you... I don't think it's right to text someone when breaking up with them.I believe you need to do it in person. I think we've lost sight in the real emotions that come with talking to people, and of course breaking up. I think it's very immature on a lot of levels, when the only thing you can do is text, rather than explaining the reasons. Lets get real, and be real with ourselves, and with each other. It's just sad that we've come this far, but in reality we've lost a lot of who we are, and the end result is based on what just happened... I'm sorry it happened, and I hope you can move on to a better place, because I know how hard it is. But I hope you can find a person that has enough courtesy to tell you in person...
What Guys Said 4
Depends on the content.
It is because they are afraid or just immature, either/or. Afraid that they might feel bad and just stay. Or afraid that they might get smacked or something.
He's probably just afraid. Even more so if he knew that you really liked him.
this is gonna sound pretty harsh but...you're under 18 and pretty much all the guys around that age and some older too are immature and don't care about anything but some arm candy they just want the prettiest girl on their arm so they can be more popular and you said you 'really love him' You might but MOST of the time its just the girl saying that because she wants to believe that where I think she isn't really mature enough to make that decision and I would NEVER break up over a text because I'm not that cruel
What Girls Said 2
My sister really loved this dude., && they hung out the morning before. Then when she got home., he texted her saying he loved her. They talked it out later., && he said that the girl he broke up with her for., talked to him after they hung out., && she said that she wanted him back && all kinds of stuff.
i agree completely my boyfriend broke up with me a little over a week ago thro txt and its killin me but about 10 min before that he kisses me and says it will be ok... yeah right